Abundance or Scarcity? Expansion or Contraction? Love or Fear?
No matter which circumstance, challenge and conflict we are presented with, we are in complete control of the manner in which we relate to our environment, what i mean by that is that there is always a choice to be made, but how do we know we're making the right choice?
We use our emotions to gauge as to whether we're happy or sad, and if something doesn't feel right, we usually look outside ourselves to try and fix the problem. It isn't too often that we dare enough to look inward, why are we so quick to assume that there is something outside ourselves that is to blame? how did we get to this point?
Well, we are a product of our surroundings, our beliefs structures have been based on what we have been exposed to, we absorb everything in our surroundings both consciously and unconsciously, and we begin to form opinions, judgements and reasoning based on those surroundings, but what if the driving motivator by what we are influenced by, doesn't actually serve us in our highest good in the first place?
How do we know if we are dealing with a challenging situation the right way? how do we know if a certain friendship with someone is serving us? how do we know if our job is serving what we ultimately want to create in your our lives? Are working for ourselves or against ourselves?
Are we making decisions based on fear or love?
When our primary influencer is fear, there are physical and mental implications, fear in it's most singular form causes the body to contract, our life force energy begins to seep out of us, we become unsure as to whether we are making the right decision, and this air of scarcity begins to permeate through us, and if we feed the fear, then our outside world begins to visually reflect the fear that we are exuding, we start to see that which we are afraid of, why? because anything we resist persists.
When we use fear as a governing force to succeed in life, it creates a separation mentality, it invokes the programming that we don't trust other people, and that we can only rely on ourselves, this shows complete disregard for the abundance that flows through us in every moment.
We need to shift our thinking to start aligning with what it means to love, to be abundant, to feel expansive. There is a re-framing that needs to occur, it involves understanding that the very fact that we exist is a miracle, it's the appreciation for every single moment that passes us by, it's the understanding that there are enough resources, there are enough jobs, you are enough, you are loved, you are ready, you are beautiful, you are talented, you can handle the pressure, you can come through on the other side.
When we begin to honour ourselves and become clear on the specificity of what it is we want to manifest in our lives, and create the space around us that is supportive to facilitating that in which we want to create, we begin to operate from a place of love.
When we start to make decisions that are based on following our highest excitement and habitually pursue this excitement, we begin to start creating a new pattern in our behaviour and the world around us begins to synchronise and recognise this new pattern because we're no longer placing our power outside of us, we are now seeking the power from within and instantly a shift occurs as your inner world will always reflect your outer world.
So in every moment are we choosing to respond with expansion or contraction? are our belief systems wired through abundance or scarcity? do we resonate more with love or fear? these are the type's of questions we need to start asking ourselves, we can't keep creating from a foundation that was not built to support us.
Once we start to see the world through an abundance mentality, our outside world begins to change. Synchronicity starts to work it's magic, the flow of what we desire begins to reveal itself effortlessly, the right person now appears to you at the right time, you're faced with much more opportunity and doors that were previously closed have now presented themselves at your merriment.